As time goes by

Could you say that your old girlfriends kids, that they "made" after your relationship, are cute? Of course I'm looking at this from the male perspective, but I guess it goes both ways. I think that as soon as your relationship is over and she gets a kid, it's labled "goblin" by default.I don't think it matters if you ended the relationship or if she did. Or that you agreed about breaking up, it is and will always be a goblin.